so my personality got feared and he interrupted with okura is released, then i interrupt with balance in nothingness. will it negate okura as remaining effect?
balance in nothingness and okura is released
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so my personality got feared and he interrupted with okura is released, then i interrupt with balance in nothingness. will it negate okura as remaining effect?
No, because when he's targeted, your Personality isn't bowed.
See the Action Sequence: A. Announce B. Pay costs C. Choose targets D. Interrupts E. Check targets and resolve effects F. Finish
Your Personality is chosen as the target in step C, but nothing happens to him until step E, which is when target validity is checked and effects resolve which are triggered by a card being targeted. Balance in Nothingness, like Okura is Released, is played in Step D, creating a delayed effect which triggers as described in Step E, except at this point he's not yet been bowed by the action so it does nothing. The Fear effect then bows him, triggering the delayed effect of Okura is Released, which destroys him.